I said No F’in Pork in my pots

Say What? Yeah that is what I said when my ex screamed at me my father is a Muslim and you better not cook pork in my pots. So we are about 1095 days married and then some, yeah I can’t remember so what. By this time we have moved on up like George and Weezy and are living in the heart of the city, time square. We could look out our living room window and see the city’s lights and billboards. To me this sounds nice if you are on vacation but not on a permanent stay. Once again the Pharlo factor is back in the states and in my place. My ex and Pharlo walk in the door and he immediately starts screaming at me about the pork. Pharlo looks on in utter disbelief because in his eyes I did nothing wrong. In my eyes I did nothing wrong either I knew for a fact that my Ex was a control freak. Ladies and gentlemen again if this is your situation I suggest you run for the hills. We did not have a child at the time and it would have bee easy for me to run but I really wanted our relationship to work. One things I can advise is be true to yourself and don’t push things everything should be natural. If it is not natural then the end results are usually not favorable in your interest. This advice could save you heartache and pain to mention a few, take it and run with it! My ex was screaming about the pork and I had to put him in his place. I told him honey I did not know that this is what I signed up for, him dictating what I ate and did not eat. I asked myself “Has this man lost his natural ever living mind”? and then I told him for 26 years I have been raised on protein including pork that I liked it and I had no clue that I had to abide by a belief that did not pertain to me and because a man I never met who thinks I am the receptionist when he calls my house does not eat pork. I said “HELL TO THE FUCKING NO” “What you think this is? Then I went on the cuss him in Jamaican, Spanish and English. If my French was up to par I would have told him La Med, LOL. The nerve of this fool and his tom foolery. Every time this rude so called father-n-law called the house he never acknowledged me by name and only asked for money. I mean we only have been married for like ever and we now have a child and he still did not get the memo that my name was Eve. This man was so rude he would say hey are you not giving him the message. He needs to send the money because the kids need to go to school and their registration fees need to be paid, WTF. As far as my ex and I knew he had no children back home and he just made his first and only child so what did his father mean the kids school fees needed to be paid. Hello. He made those kids and continues to make them because of his Muslim beliefs and now he wants my husband to pay for them. This was a very sore subject in my house. At the end of the day I know many husbands and wives get upset about their other half’s contributing finances to their so called family members but here is the score on this there is nothing you can do about it. Make sure you keep your own checking account where you put money aside for yourself and it is a private account. You can call this your in case shit account, LOL. This is a good idea especially if you have a controlling mate like I did more than likely the controlling mate will want you to have joint accounts and no secrets. At this time I would like to pay tribute and take a moment of silence out for Shaunie O’Neil according to the media she stacked her own cheddar. 50 cool points to your Shaunie, go head with your bad self. If I did not know then I knew now that I was attached to and idiot and pure a hole. Trust and believe if you see yourself in my story it gets worst so don’t stay for it love you more and leave! On a day to day basis I dealt with BS from my Ex no pork amongst other things. He was crazy and deranged, lol, he is not really mentally ill but a lot of the times he acted that way.