Child support, should you seek it and when?

Okay I was one of the stupid ones that could not believe that this was all coming to and end. Against advice of my lawyer and friends I decided to not pursue child support because I loved him and I wanted my family to get back together. This was the stupidest thing I ever did. When my husband moved out he gave no notification. After five years and a half and a nine month old baby and three months after he received his green card it took him all but two days to get his stuff and break out. Man my gut told me this on July 28, 2002 in the early afternoon in Viva Las Vegas right before I got married. My gut said Eve do not do this he is going to get his green card and leave you flat and not care about you or your well being. Back in the days folks got paid for marriage fraud but now a days it’s cheaper to sucker someone into it, it’s free. Why isn’t my government protecting me? What up congress what up?

In regard to child support do it immediately do not wait because the way the system really works it can take anywhere from 3 to 6 months to receive the support money from the time that you file. The owed money begins to accumulate and the accumulation continues to happen until monies are paid. The non custodial parents’ failure to pay results in the following loss of drivers license and incarceration. Yippee to all the scum bags (men and women I do not discriminate) not doing what they need to do in respect to their children. The law is coming for you and I am grand marshal at this parade. Custodial parents having problems in this department post some questions I am more than happy to help. Always remember if there are children involved the ultimate goal is find a friendship with your ex and promote unity to your children. It is terrible when parents don’t get along and children get caught in the cross fire.
Let me be clear child support does not equal revenge it is securing your child’s future.