Birthday Bash with extras.

As my girl Wendy says I really needed to be cheifed up before this event, lol. The reason I say that is because I was going to definitely run into my ex boyfriend that I probably should have married if I was marrying for love he was the way to go, unfortunately I went left. SO anyway I’ll get back to him in a few. My friend and home girl The CEO of The Ex-girlfriends crew threw her daughter who happens to be my daughters BFF well at least for now because they are young and they cant hate each other yet. The CEO has seen the value in all the women that the men in the opposite crew lost or left. So in some ironic way we all still somehow run into each other. Sometimes the moments are awkward and other times they are sincere and strange. All in all it is good to see someone you used to love and that used to love you it makes you feel all warm inside unless the relationship was all war and the roses. It was me against the bounce along, Oh My Goodness. My daughter was happier than a pig in shit when she saw the life size castle blown up and it had a slide. My daughter is obsessed with the slide and I can drive down a block with a park and not hear her mouth. God forbid I drive past the slide I go from the greatest mommy in the world to her arch nemesis, LOL. So I bribe her with a walk to the store and a bag of Doritos and I always get back in the game with the bag of chips. Wait till she is a teenager and she says I am going to need Prada’s new IT bag in order to feel better. I will tell her to get a job or a man because my funds do not and will not extend to putting Prada on her behind. She just better hope that I still keep my IT bags in their sleeping bags so they can maintain their glamour. No worries I do not after what I have spent on my treasures $$$$. At the party I met divorced moms like myself some anger and some pleasant. I met one lady that came of to be sweet but I could tell she had that don’t play factor about her. She is what I call a gem because with women like her I think you never know what is coming next. She reminds me of the hook from black rob where Harvey Pierre sang “You don’t want to play around with me, Oh no I’ll hurt you”, LOL, I like those type of people. This lady is a single mom and has a decent working relationship with her ex but at times he gets out of line and she has to put him back in. To the lady that I met keep doing a good job at raising your child, he is adorable. It is funny the little boy also had that attitude about him very quiet and reserved but I saw him holding his own in the bounce along and he was not taking any crap from anyone. He was definitely a different child outside of the bounce along, LOL. I like his attitude cute, quiet and he ain’t no punk. You go Shorty keep banging! Then I met another lady she was single mother of three girls. My hat goes off to this lady because just being a single mother of 1 child is hard but three is amazing. I told her about my blog and she insisted that she did not need to hear what I was talking about but I honestly believe she should put me on her fave 5. It did not take long for her to play her voice mail messages of her ex husband harassing her verbally on the phone. She was so anger because she is trying to move on with her life and instead he keeps sucking her back into non progressive things. I can’t stand harassing people its like WTF can you just leave people alone and get over yourself. I would believe that this woman is way to busy figuring out how to go on day by day and raise her children to the best of her ability and has no time to take phones calls to be cursed out or disrespected. The audacity of her ex, the audacity of my ex he likes to call with his compliments on a monthly basis or every other month. I am raising a nice little girl she is feed clothed bathed loved and even a few extras and my ex has the nerve to curse me out. I think he and I are reading from two different books, THE DUMMIES HOW TO BE AN ASS VERSE COMMON SENSE, DUH! Back to the lady I met she was angry and stressed out and she made a comment that because of his disrespect she does not allow her ex to see the kids. My dear I hope that you are reading this Let your girls see their father especially if he wants to see them. Do not let him control you and make decisions and switch up your life especially since you have come so far for so long on your own. Your girls are old enough to protect themselves when they are not with you and they are old enough to stand up for you when you are not able to stand up for yourself. Let them go my dear because what you are doing is just not cool. Accept and flourish in the fact that your children will resent him for his disrespect towards you especially after you have done so much for them. You are in the right, keep holding your head up you are doing a good job! Nuff respect to you holding down the fort. Put me on your fave 5 angry lady J

So My Ex Lover / Boyfriend is married to a Japanese stripper for a green card and now love. WTF WTF WTF this is the same man that screamed at me for doing what I did in marrying the BOOBOO’s father to get his green card. I swear pinch me now okay . SO of course I am blown away. If you ever watched Sex in the City I really feel like he was my Aiden. I know you all are like awww, hello the reality is that Carrie did not end up with Aiden so please be easy, I am currently making other moves. I am not going to front when I saw him go back and forth with that big booty I did recall some scenarios especially that time in a Miami in a bathroom somewhere on South Beach. What better place to see your ex when you are with your girls he is with his boys you everybody is partying getting lifted and chiefing. Those were the days and now he is all down with Asia WTF happened to the true Yard Jamaican in him. I don’t know how I will feel if he ends up single after his experience. I definitely will think about running into his Tall big caramel body again in south beach again. That will always be up on the table so if you know me and you know him you can pass the word if you are reading this, CEO, LOL. Wendy sometime you just got to chief to get through it.